Saturday, May 28, 2011

*Sighs* After 2 years ....yes 2 YEARS, just when you thought MAYBE they got HELP....Wrong, they show up even CRAZIER & Delusional then ever! Are you dealing w/a The Narcissistic Sociopath – A Type?!? If so read below,

The Narcissistic Sociopath – 


I can’t go into too much detail about this,(not because I CAN'T the Year limit is up dummy, it's because I am MUCH better of a person and truly YOU aren't WORTH my time! BUT, my friends are so back to them) - but I am dealing with one of these characters right now. All I can say if you run across these people in your life is run, don’t walk, right away from them as fast as you can. And even IF they happen to be family members or even distant family members, seriously!?! There is NO BOOK out there THAT says you HAVE to take ABUSE from family and keep that person around! BY ALL MEANS- Cut them OFF-ASAP! Because THOSE ARE THE WORST, they KNOW all your vulnerabilities and TRUST me THEY WILL use them to your advantage! But, back to my point of this post.


I won’t go into much details about this either but there has been a narcissist close to me for most of my life. This person is simply out and out harmful to me. They’ve done tremendous harm to me in the past, and if I continue to deal with them, they will continue to try to inflict, or will inflict, harm on me.


I think they can’t help it, but I’m also wondering if they are incurable. Most people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Antisocial Personality Disorder cannot be helped. Why? They do not wish to be cured, see nothing wrong with themselves, and never will.

A few can be cured, but it’s not easy. You can’t change a tiger into a lion. You can’t change your basic personality. This is a law of psychology. For all personalities, there exists a pathological side and a healthy side. For NPD, the healthy side is called Confident Personality. For APD, the healthy side is called Aggressive Personality. Neither are optimal, but truly healthy personalities are either exceedingly rare or possibly nonexistent.


There are varying degrees of narcissism. First is the narcissism that any healthy person has. Then we start getting into varying degrees of narcissism. At some point, you have to say someone has narcissistic traits, or is a narcissist. That doesn’t mean NPD. As one starts getting more pathological, we start moving into NPD, Narcissistic Personality Disorder. This is an extremely serious condition in which the individual ends up causing harm to most of the significant people in their life. As I said above, get all the harmful narcissists out of your life.

Going even further, we get into malignant narcissism. This is getting worse and worse. I’m not sure exactly what’s going on here, but we may be looking at the narcissist-sociopath. Ted Bundy was one, so was Jeffrey MacDonald, and so, in my opinion, is OJ Simpson as well as is my Stalker. They differ from pure sociopaths in that they need and crave attention and go nuts when you criticize them.


Pure sociopaths pretty much don’t give a damn whether anyone likes them or not. I don’t think they need attention or admiration either – I imagine they could care less about that too. I doubt if criticism bothers them much either. Most sociopaths seem to smile, laugh or glibly explain away any criticism directed at them. That, or they ignore it altogether.

The sociopath is not hurt by your criticism because there’s nothing there to hurt. It’s like yelling at a grizzly bear in a cage. The bear just looks up at you like, “Screw you, human,” and goes back to whatever he was doing.


If the sociopath feels that the criticism may harm him or thwart his plans, he may become alarmed, because these are machines dedicated to carrying out their plans. Thwarted plans don’t get carried out. Not good. So criticism simply spins the sociopath into a dizzying performance of lying, more lying, lies upon lies layered upon more lies, show-business style performance, the Mother of All Personal Charm Shows, on and on.

The “show” is so mesmerizing, baffling, confusing and charming that you can barely understand what’s happening, but a lot of times, you end up going along with the sociopath. Afterward, maybe you wonder why. The sociopath gets up and walks out of the room and out of your life.


Later, picking up the pieces, you are sitting there, dazed, shaking your head. “What the Hell was that?” you are thinking. It’s like you just got hit by a Human Tornado that whirled into your life, trashed a lot of stuff, and then twisted off speedily into the sunset. You look outside, and it’s gone. You’ve been the victim of an emotional mugging, and you still can’t make sense of it.


There’s plenty on the Net about both sociopathy and narcissism and I have only barely scratched the surface here. Suffice to say that I feel that the sociopath is at the far end of the narcissistic scale. The sociopath is an ultra-narcissist.

He’s so superior and above it all that he doesn’t even care anymore. He thinks you’re an idiot, and he doesn’t care if you disagree. He will use you, abuse you, maybe even steal from you, assault you or kill you, but then he will sit down and eat a bowl of cereal like nothing else happened. That’s the ultimate in narcissism. You don’t exist as another human being to him. You’re a pure object, a tool, a means to an end. You may as well be a steering wheel or a hammer – that’s how much humanity you have to him.

Here is an interesting post on the difference between a narcissist and a sociopath. I don’t necessarily agree,  but it’s interesting reading.

The truth is that this is all just spectrum, probably emanating from extroversion at one end and moving through narcissism and all the way to psychopathy.

This entire spectrum is utterly the opposite of the introvert – fearful – neurotic type, but your average moron can’t figure that out. As a society, we think that shy introverts are “psycho”,  probably because we worship extroversion and despise introversion. Truth is the true, pure, classic introvert is the least harmful or dangerous person, the least likely to hurt an innocent person, on Earth.


True, they are not all wimps, and some will fight back against the abuse they are typically subjected to. But that’s not the same as the abusive aggression of the narcissist and sociopath that targets the innocent.

Why the introvert is generally so harmless is a fascinating subject, but I think I will leave it for another post.


I would also point out that most sociopaths are never arrested. These are the “controlled sociopaths” swarming all over the worlds of business, law, politics, law enforcement and the military. All of these professions provide outlets for controlled sociopaths to channel their antisocial and extremely aggressive behavior into. They can be every where. The shyster attorney, crooked businessman, con artist, ruthless executive, they can be your neighbor, your in-laws, your cousins, aunts, uncles, sometimes even parents, they're the gold diggers who have babies w/Men to seal their paycheck every week then proceed to judge/lie/swindle/and plot against others who are doing everything right and everything they can & they just CAN'T STAND it! Because THEY KNOW they are WHY they are truly ALONE w/NOT a SOUL they can TRULY trust and open up too they have burned EVERYONE of them ON SOME LEVEL. Or how about the lying and wheeling/dealing politician come to mind.


There are many non-sociopaths in LE and the military, but it’s heaven for controlled sociopaths too. There is some evidence that they don’t do well in the military though. They love to blow stuff up and kill people, but they are so fearless and reckless that they often end up dead in wartime. Studies in World War 2 showed that though this type were excellent pilots, they were much more likely to be shot down. They were so fearless that they didn’t even bother to try to save their own skins.


I’m not trying to say that all cops are sociopaths, but anyone who’s had unpleasant dealings with cops (like yours truly) knows they are out there. Personality studies have shown the cops and criminals have remarkably similar personalities. It’s just that cops are channeling their antisocial BS in a healthy direction – busting bad guys.

For more on narcissism, check out Sam Vankin’s fantastic work on the web. Vankin is a fascinating character – I think he is a narcissist himself!



Joanna Ashmum’s site, How To Recognize a Narcissist , is fantastic, as is her classic essay, And Now We Are Six. Yes. The narcissist is going to be 6 years old for the rest of his life. Ever met a 6 yr old? Think about it.

Friday, May 27, 2011

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Thursday, May 26, 2011

*Suicide Awareness Video; &....

also if you haven't noticed I have added a couple of banners to my blog as well.
Feel free to click on them especially if YOU yourself are feeling suicidal or
someone you know/love & care for...& enjoy the video.


Also Thanks for stopping by! SUICIDE Awareness post/causes anything
about them tugs my heart strings. :) Most know but in case you do not
I have lost my best friends, FATHER, father in law, cousins, friends &
the list goes on & on who I KNOW who have committed and succeeded in
Suicide. I even have an even LONGER list of those who attempted BUT
are still here to this day! Thankfully. SO thanks for reading/watching.

Blessed be to all.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

A product of boredom & fun w/the kids...... Lol.☻




Can you guess the Recipe? It's SO easy......I bet you can, if not IMPROVISE! Lol. xD 


& feel free to share your images/links/or Recipes below that you and your children make together!

& Thanks. xoxoxoxoxxx


Some quotes that really mean something,

One's suffering disappears when one lets oneself go, when one yields - even to sadness.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Southern Mail, 1929, translated from French by Curtis Cate

To give vent now and then to his feelings, whether of pleasure or discontent, is a great ease to a man's heart.  ~Francesco Guicciardini

Let's not forget that the little emotions are the great captains of our lives and we obey them without realizing it.  ~Vincent Van Gogh, 1889

Men are no more immune from emotions than women; we think women are more emotional because the culture lets them give free vent to certain feelings, "feminine" ones, that is, no anger please, but it's okay to turn on the waterworks.  ~Una Stannard

But are not this struggle and even the mistakes one may make better, and do they not develop us more, than if we kept systematically away from emotions?  ~Vincent Van Gogh

One's suffering disappears when one lets oneself go, when one yields - even to sadness.  ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, Southern Mail, 1929, translated from French by Curtis Cate

Emotion turning back on itself, and not leading on to thought or action, is the element of madness.  ~John Sterling

Theories are private property, but truth is common stock.  ~Charles Caleb Colton
 

It is a terrible thing for a man to find out suddenly that all his life he has been speaking nothing but the truth.  ~Oscar Wilde


Truth is the breath of life to human society.  It is the food of the immortal spirit.  Yet a single word of it may kill a man as suddenly as a drop of prussic acid.  ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

All great truths begin as blasphemies.  ~George Bernard Shaw, Annajanska, 1919

Who is wise?  He that learns from everyone.  Who is powerful?  He that governs his passions.  Who is rich?  He that is content.  Who is that?  Nobody.  ~Benjamin Franklin

Those who are quite satisfied sit still and do nothing; those who are not quite satisfied are the sole benefactors of the world.  ~Walter Savage Landor

He has all the virtues I dislike and none of the vices I admire.  ~Winston Churchill

I don't know that there are haunted houses.  I know that there are dark staircases and haunted people.  ~Robert Brault

If we had no faults of our own, we would not take so much pleasure in noticing those of others.  ~Francois duc de la Rochefoucauld

I've met so many people, often the scum of the earth, and found them, you know, quite decent.  I am an uncomfortable stranger to moral indignation.  ~W. Somerset Maugham      

Freaks are the much needed escape from the humdrum.  They are poetry.  ~Albert Perry

A man never knows how to say goodbye; a woman never knows when to say it.  ~Helen Rowland

In general, of course, a stranger who tries to get you into an automobile is anything but noble, and in general a person who quotes great American novelists is anything but treacherous, and in general a man who says you needn't worry about money, or a man who smokes cigarettes, is somewhere in between.  ~Lemony Snicket

His voice was as intimate as the rustle of sheets.  ~Dorothy Parker

History teaches us that men and nations behave wisely once they have exhausted all other alternatives.  ~Abba Eban
 

The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.  ~Elbert Hubbard, The Note Book, 1927

Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.  ~Sophia Loren

It was when I found out I could make mistakes that I knew I was on to something.  ~Ornette Coleman

I never make stupid mistakes.  Only very, very clever ones.  ~John Peel

Never say, "oops."  Always say, "Ah, interesting."  ~Author Unknown

If you don't make mistakes, you're not working on hard enough problems.  And that's a big mistake.  ~F. Wikzek

While one person hesitates because he feels inferior, the other is busy making mistakes and becoming superior.  ~Henry C. Link

An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made in a very narrow field.  ~Niels Bohr
 
A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying... that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.  ~Alexander Pope, in Swift, Miscellanies

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.  ~John Powell
 

Making mistakes simply means you are learning faster.  ~Weston H. Agor

Doing one fool thing after another is not so terrible when you consider the human proclivity to do several fool things at once.  ~Robert Brault


If a mistake is not a stepping stone, it is a mistake.  ~Eli Siegel
 

One cannot too soon forget his errors and misdemeanors; for to dwell upon them is to add to the offense.  ~Henry David Thoreau

You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm.  ~Colette
 

When you realize you've made a mistake, make amends immediately.  It's easier to eat crow while it's still warm.  ~Dan Heist

Just because you make mistakes doesn't mean you are one.  ~Author Unknown

Truth will sooner come out of error than from confusion.  ~Francis Bacon


Admit your errors before someone else exaggerates them.  ~Andrew V. Mason

Every truth passes through three stages before it is recognized.  In the first, it is ridiculed, in the second it is opposed, in the third it is regarded as self-evident.  ~Arthur Schopenhauer
 

There is no truth.  There is only perception.  ~Gustave Flaubert
 

If a thousand old beliefs were ruined in our march to truth we must still march on.  ~Stopford Brooke


Tuesday, May 17, 2011

UPDATE: Parents FOUND & Boy Identified! Mom WAS ARRESTED! :Mystery Child Found Dead: Will You Help Find His Parents? You have to read & SHARE this article PLEASE!


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The story of an unidentified child found dead on a rural road in Maine is almost too heartbreaking to bear. The mystery boy's body was discovered on Saturday in South Berwick, and no one has come forward to claim him. I confess it's the first time I have actually read a story and hoped something horrible befell a child's parents, because otherwise, how does one reconcile the fact that no one is looking for him? That this 4- to 6-year-old with the Lightning McQueen sneakers had been abandoned by the people supposed to love him?
But there's a ton of cliches out there about the goodness of man coming to light in the darkness of tragedy for a reason. Because as Maine police struggle to identify this child, the Internet is coming out to help them. The story is still heartbreaking, but we need to set aside the finger pointing and the desire to hide under the covers with our own kids and not come out. First, he needs our help!!!

So PLEASE this is how you can HELP!!!!!! YOU share this article, my post- EITHER with ALL & EVERYONE you know EVERYWHERE YOU CAN! PLEASE, SOMEONE HAS TO RECOGNIZE THIS CHILD!!!!!! ::( Bless his little soul.

Child Found In Maine Identified As Camden Pierce Hughes. 

 

A young boy found dead on a remote Maine road has reportedly been identified as Camden Pierce Hughes, a 6-year-old from Texas.

Juli Mccrery, the child's mother, confessed to Massachusetts State Police that she administered an overdose of medication that killed her son, WBZ-TV reports.
Calls to the Massachusetts State Police were not immediately returned.
After the boy's body was discovered along a rural road in South Berwick, investigators released a computer-generated image of the child and were swamped with hundreds of tips about the boy's possible identity.
Authorities focused their attention on witnesses who said they saw a woman driving a blue Toyota Tacoma pickup truck near the location where the child was discovered.
According to the station, a Massachusetts state trooper who was aware of the lead pulled over a vehicle that matched the description at an I-495 rest stop in Chelmsford, Mass., on Wednesday morning. The motorist, identified as the victim's mother, reportedly made statements about the boy's death and was taken into protective custody.

Mccrery's ex-boyfriend, Robert Miller, who called himself as "the only dad [Hughes] ever knew," described the child as "a very nice boy ... an innocent boy" who was in the "gifted and talented class in kindergarten."
"All I know is that he's dead and she's in jail," Miller told WBZ-TV. "I don't know why she was even up there."

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Monday, May 16, 2011

Facebook.com/Planking is it worth your life?!!?




It's all fun and games until some Australian guy falls to his death from a 7th-floor balcony while having his picture taken.
Following the "really tragic" demise of of Acton Beale, 20, Australian prime minister Julia Gillard attempted to call an end to the latest Facebook craze Down Under, "planking" — the apparently super-fun practice of having one's photo snapped while lying board-stiff in an awkward location, for the purpose of uploading that photo on Facebook.

"There's a difference between a harmless bit of fun done somewhere that's really safe and taking a risk with your life,'' Gillard told reporters on Sunday.
"Everybody likes a bit of fun, but focus has to be on keeping yourself safe first.''
Yeah, good luck with that, sister.

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Sunday, May 15, 2011

BRYN MAWR, Pa.; URGENT LOST DEAF DOG: Rusty is missing!

BRYN MAWR, Pennsylvania; 
URGENT LOST DEAF DOG: 
 Rusty is missing!!!!!
He escaped from his yard in Bryn Mawr this afternoon. He is also deaf, so that is making things harder. Hopefully he is still somewhere in the Bryn Mawr area. He has a collar and tag with phone number and stating that he is deaf. Please share!!!! call 610-527-7557 if you have any info.

Saturday, May 14, 2011

TURN Facebook PURPLE! Cancer SUCKS! Spread the cause, please!

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Just a quick note! ☺

Hello faithful readers/followers/friends/Tweet-hearts♥/Fbookers/Network Bloggers & yes even to the Stalkers, Lol!!! :)) I am unsure if any of you have noticed... BUT, in case you haven't!!! I am writing this to let you know!

I have turned the commenting back into the easier format! In which where you do not or will not have your pop up blockers block it when you hit POST comment anymore or will you have to approve my page anymore for the access just to redirect you to a pop out page to leave a comment!! YAY!!!

Now when you're reading a Post you will be able to load the post completely... and then comment on that same page! But, sorry captcha is still staying, Lol! 


Thanks for visiting. :)) I appreciate ALL my traffic here & if any have any suggestions/questions feel free to leave them at anytime anywhere on the blog or HEY even in this post.... & Thanks again! 
 

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Meet Kelsey the MIRACLE Baby! ♥

James Troutman identified as killer of Souderton 9-year-old Skylar Kauffman; prayer vigil tonight♥

Souderton police chief James Leary makes a brief statement to media at the Souderton Gardens apartments where the body of nine-year-old resident Skylar Kauffman was found. 
Souderton police have arrested 25-year-old James Lee Troutman, a neighbor, who has been charged in the abduction and killing of 9-year old Skylar Kauffman.

A prayer vigil will be held at 203 Chestnut St., Souderton, at 7 p.m. today for the young girl. Grace Bible Church has also invited the community to gather at the church at 423 N. Main St., Souderton, across from Souderton park, to pray from 6 to 7 p.m. in the main sanctuary.

After initial interviews, police said, they found inconsistencies in the suspect's story. Police said the suspect did not seem affected by the events. Through their investigation, police said, they had enough information to take him into custody.

Troutman is being arraigned this afternoon, across the street from the Souderton Gardens apartment complex where both Kauffman and the man lived.

Souderton Police Chief James Leary said, “We know what this is, but we can’t say it’s a homicide until the coroner says it’s a homicide”.

Montgomery County District Attorney Risa Vetri Ferman, who was away attending a law enforcement conference, is headed back to the county to lead the filing of the charges, Leary said.




“Everybody in Souderton” was involved in the search, including police from several local departments, the Montgomery County Sheriff’s office and Souderton’s Perseverance Volunteer Fire Company, Leary said. An Amber Alert had been issued about 7 p.m.

A police officer found Kauffman’s body in a trash bin around midnight Monday night, police said.

The suspect, who also lived in the apartment complex, has been taken into custody.

Police said he had blood on his shoes and acted strangely when questioned. Kauffman apparently tried to fight off the attacker and there was quite a bit of blood that led to the container in which her body, wrapped in a blanket, was found, police said.

Kauffman, who lived with her mother, Heather Kauffman, was a student at E.M. Crouthamel Elementary School in Souderton. The little girl would have turned 10 next month.

Souderton Area School District initiated its crisis response plan after learning of the news, according to a press release.

“Additional counselors and school psychologists are on hand at the school to assist students and staff as they mourn Skyler’s death. Administrators and support staff throughout the district are responding to the profound impact this tragedy is having on the entire school community,” the release notes.

“We want her family to know that our thoughts are with them in this difficult time. In our profession nothing is more heartbreaking than the death of one of our students. We share the family’s grief, and our thoughts and prayers are with them,” District Superintendent Dr. Frederick Johnson said.

The possibility of a video arraignment was earlier raised, but it now appears the arraignment will take place at District Judge Kenneth Deatelhauser’s office, which is across from the street from the apartment complex at Second and Chestnut streets.

Kauffman had been reported missing last evening. Her body was found wrapped in a blanket and dumped in a vacant lot last night.

According to police, her body was found around midnight.

"She was out playing. She didn't return for dinner. She was quite late. Her family became concerned. They contacted us. As it darkened, we became concerned. When it became full dark, we were very concerned," Leary said. "We mobilized our forces, and we conducted a very, very careful search of the general area and a very specific search of the local area. And unfortunately we found her body in the Dumpster."

A significant amount of blood and a trail with some of Kauffman's belongings, including her boots, led police from the apartment building's basement to the area where her body was found wrapped in a blanket, Leary said.

Police reported that it appeared the little girl had fought off her attacker.

The search started around North Second and East Chestnut streets, Souderton. She was last seen playing on a playground there at around 5:30 p.m., according to the alert. Multiple departments were involved in the search.

Anyone with further information can call Souderton Police at 215-723-6500.

Missing 9yr old Skylar Kauffman From: Souderton Borough, PA: If you have information, please contact Souderton Borough Police Department, 267-246-1011 or 911

An Amber Alert was issued just after midnight Tuesday, by the state police & continues to play ever 10-20 minutes!! Please Read and PASS to all in neighboring states and counties, Thank You!

Skylar Kauffman a 9-Year-Old Missing From Souderton Pennsylvania, which is located in Montgomery County, Pennsylvania. (for more on the Police dept. I've provided a link below!)

Skylar was last seen playing with friends at about 5:30 p.m. Monday on the 9th around an apartment complex which is right near the Hillside Cemetery at 2nd & Chestnut Streets in Souderton, police say. 


The Souderton local Police have and will continue searching  the cemetery & near by areas where Skylar Kauffman was last seen. The 9-year-old girl was officially reported missing at 7 p.m. Monday, May 9th.

The Souderton Police released a picture & a description of the 9yr old. The picture is shown above and Skylar Kauffman details are as listed below:

She is a white female, 9 years of age stands at 4'6" tall, she is medium build, w/dark brown hair & hazel eyes AGAIN she was wearing a yellow "Justin Bieber" t-shirt and black yoga pants. She was last seen playing in a parking lot of an apartment building at 2nd and Chestnut Streets in Souderton Borough at 5:30 pm on May 9th, 2011. Missing Childs FULL legal Name: Skylar Kauffman  Alias: Skye 


 If you have information, please contact Souderton Borough Police Department, 267-246-1011 or 911!!!!! PLEASE SHARE THIS W/ALL YOU KNOW IN ALL SURROUNDING COUNTIES AND EVEN STATES! THE FASTER WE FIND THIS LITTLE GIRL THE BETTER CHANCES WE HAVE SHE WON'T BE HURT!  (Click the link above and go to the Police Dept.s Main page) Thank you. And PLEASE SHARE this w/ALL you know in ALL surrounding STATES and COUNTIES, Thank you!!
GOD BLESS her and her Family that THEY ALL FIND STRENGTH to deal w/this terrible and evil times that have foreshadowed them! May she be brought home SAFE AND SOUND! Or even left on a street corner, at a store, MALL, GAS STATION anywhere as long as she is not touched! -AMEN♥



UPDATE:


PA Amber Alert Canceled
AMBER ALERT CANCELED
***THE AMBER ALERT ISSUED ON MAY 9-10 HAS BEEN CANCELED.***
Police in Souderton, Montgomery County, have recovered the body of 9-year-old Skylar Kauffman.

Investigators say she was murdered.

Her body was found near the apartment complex between Chestnut Street and a cemetery.

Police say they have found evidence at the scene, but so far have not indicated if they have a suspect.



Sunday, May 8, 2011

Al Qaeda Now is threatening the United States & our Allies

& the US tells Pakistan to name agents who aided bin Laden
& the Suspicion grows that someone knew Al-Qaeda leader's location, & shielded him! Watch the video below then click on the link above to read a very interesting article on all of this. All posted in the New York Times. :) 





An aerial view shows the residential area of Abbottabad, Pakistan, where Osama bin Laden was found and killed by U.S. commandos. (Asif Hassan / AFP - Getty Images)

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Are you a Victim of Bullying? If so please read this post! You do have hope & help available as well as tons of people who care!! You just have to let them!! ♥

Helpful Contacts
Anyone who is suffering online harassment who feels they are in danger should ring the police.
If you are worried about someone's behaviour towards a child online, you can report this to the Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (CEOP). CEOP's Thinkuknow program  provides more detailed information for parents, teachers and young people about staying safe on the internet – visit  the website.
For anyone who is being cyber-bullied or cyber-stalked, the expert advice is to seek help immediately. Here are some useful starting points:
    The Beat-bullying charity runs Cybermentors, an online youngster-to-youngster advice service to support young people who are being bullied. Beat-bullying is also organizing a 'Big March' - an online protest march against bullying. You can join by going to the Big March website to lobby the government on bullying. Useful advice is also available on the Beat Bullying website.
    ChildLine is the free helpline and online service for children and young people in the UK. Children and young people can call 0800 1111 or visit the website to talk to a trained counselor about any problem, or talk to other young people on the message boards.
    The Network for Surviving Stalking is conducting a study to find out the scale of cyber harassment. There's also practical advice at their website. The National Stalking Helpline is 0300 636 0300.
    The UK National Bullying Helpline is available for adults and children Monday to Thursday 10am-4pm on 0845 22 55 787. Useful advice can be found on their website.
    Kidscape operates an anti-bullying helpline for parents of bullied children on 08451 205204 Monday-Thursday 10am-4pm.
    Parentline Plus on 0808 800 2222 or email parentsupport@parentlineplus.org.uk offers parents a free anti-bullying pack or visit the website for further support.
    I was invited to join a great page on Myspace! Below is their banner feel free to click it and Add them! I am sure you won't regret it! *Smiles* (;
    Also check out these other Anti-Bully post listed just below! Just click the pictures and it will take you to the post,.........☻

W/All the controversy over Bristol Palin's face & whether or not she has just lost weight OR had plastic surgery I've done my own research & well CLICK Below, ... ♥ UPDATED: Bristol ADMITS to having surgery!









 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Well at first I wasn't going to give this much thought nor did ANY of the pictures ANY of the post that spoke on this have a DECENT picture! Mostly it looked as if she just lost some weight and her face was a bit more defined & just maybe the stress of being a Teen Mom *Rolls Eyes* (That was clearly sarcasm, lmbo! BUT, no I did my OWN research and got my hands on some UNTOUCHED nor were they watermarked pictures, meaning they have 0 copyright and are free share, well were. Lol,

BUT......Seriously LOOK at the picture of Bristol on the left, & I did choose a much nicer one! They're so MANY way worse photos of her, all you have to do to see them is just GOOGLE her name and a TON pop up! x)~ Especially now w/the controversy!
But Seriously BACK to the point LOOK at those pictures the picture on the LEFT is NOT the same as the girl on the right! She TOTALLY TOOK AWAY ALL her natural features WHICH MADE HER who she was! She'll no longer have people wonder if she's twins w/her younger sister (because they definitely are Irish Twins though that's for sure, lol!) but yeah, I have NO doubt that she has had work done to her face which is so so very sad because she's a TEENAGER even up to 30 women still are developing and changing and most grow more and more beautiful thru the years! :)

IF she JUST would have waited!!!! Her face would have developed and face it I do NOT like her but SHE IS NOT AN UGLY girl, neither is her mother, honestly. But she would have grown in to a NATURALLY BEAUTIFUL woman if she just would've LEFT HER FACE ALONE! :( BUTCHERING your face at any age younger then 40 in my opinion you're making the BIGGEST MISTAKES OF YOUR LIFE!!!! You have NO WRINKLES and peoples FLAWS are what make you beautiful!!

People seriously NEED to wake up and REALLY REALIZE not just say it!!! BUT TRULY BELIEVE IN IT that BEAUTY is INSIDE NOT on the OUTSIDE! If you're the most beautiful and kindest person on the inside it WILL SHINE through you and it WILL show!! BUT, if you're incredibly ugly and self-centered then it WILL show and PEOPLE will find you an UGLY human being! So be WISE and always remember....

















  


UPDATE:
Bristol has now admitted to having Corrective Jaw Surgery! 
Which other sources, friends of hers and Professionals say she had it done soley 
for looks NOT to correct her TEETH (they were fine!) Lol, she also has been CALLED out for having ALLOT more done by Professionals pointing it out! :) 

SO YES she did have surgery & that is just SAD!!!!!!! :( 
What an example this will be for ALL young girls! 
How many more times is she gonna prove how she is a BAD role model for teens!
And NOW she has a Reality show in which sounds TERRIBLE! Just google it, it's everywhere. Or take my word on it! It's not even worth linking. Period. 
Sad. Sad. Sad.
 

Friday, May 6, 2011

16 Secrets the Restaurants don't want you to know,


What does the restaurant industry have to hide? A lot, apparently. A hidden force behind America's obesity epidemic is the fact that many chain restaurants—which provide one-third of all restaurant meals, according to the New York Department of Health—obfuscate the fat and calorie counts of their menu items, and fight any attempt to shed light on what, exactly, is going on between their buns and inside their taco shells. 


Not That were shocked by how far restaurants were willing to go to hide their nutritional info from our prying eyes. So when David Zinczenko & coauthor Matt Goulding conducted their own scientific testing, consulted with nutrition experts, and they did some good old-fashioned snooping. In the end, they uncovered countless secrets these mega-restaurateurs had been keeping. The 16 most mind-blowing are below, but they just scratch the surface, really.

Since then they have published a book called Eat This, Not That hit the bookstores in December 2007, and it's become a bestseller. And, in one city anyway, the hide-the-calories game has gotten a bit tougher—a new law in New York City compels restaurants to list calorie data. (Similar legislation was first passed in 2006, but only took effect in June because it had to survive several legal challenges from—you guessed it—the restaurant industry.) But, for the most part, little has changed. 

Outback Steakhouse doesn't want you to know:
That the only nutritional information it provides is for its Tangy Tomato Dressing. When we contacted the company, a spokesperson claimed, "Ninety percent of our meals are prepared by hand...Any analysis would be difficult to measure consistently." Yet no fewer than 45 national chain restaurants do just that. (Hey, in case you were wondering, an order of Outback's Aussie Cheese Fries has 2,900 calories, and its Ayers Rock Strip has 60 grams of fat.)

Applebee's doesn't want you to know:
That many of its "low-fat" items have more than 500 calories. (In fact, its low-fat chicken quesadillas have 742 calories and 90 grams of carbohydrates per order.)

IHOP doesn't want you to know:
That its Omelet Feast has 1,335 calories and 35 grams of saturated fat. (By the time you finish eating this behemoth breakfast, you'll have consumed 150 percent of your daily fat requirement and 300 percent of your suggested cholesterol intake.) Said IHOP's director of communications, "We do not maintain nutritional data on our menu items, so I am unable to assist you."

Red Robin doesn't want you to know:
The nutritional impact of its gourmet burgers. "A gourmet burger starts by being an honest burger," Red Robin's Web site declares — but not, apparently, a burger that will come clean about its nutrition facts. When contacted, Red Robin's senior vice president responded that nutritional information for the menu would be available in October 2007. As of December, however, nutrition facts were still not posted on the site. Another public-relations representative e-mailed us to request this: "As this information is not yet public, can you please confirm that this will not be leaked?" Uh, no.

Hooters doesn't want you to know:
Anything about what's in its food. Although chains such as Chili's and Uno Chicago Grill divulge the thousands of calories in their chicken wings, Hooters blames its nutritional-disclosure negligence on its expansive menu, which contains about 25 entrees: "Because of the millions of combinations available and our desire to frequently give you new menu options, it is impossible to provide accurate nutritional data," responded a PR representative. Our own investigation revealed that the chain's wing sauce (which consists primarily of butter, sweet cream, and partially hydrogenated margarine) also contains such unappetizing additives as maltodextrin, propylene glycol alginate, xanthan gum, calcium disodium EDTA, and potassium sorbate. (Not being able to tell what's natural and what's enhanced has always been a problem for us at Hooters.)  

Arby's doesn't want you to know:
That the FDA has no definition of "all natural." Thus, chains like Arby's can say they serve "100 percent all-natural chicken," despite using artificial flavoring. Even worse, the "all-natural" smoothies at chains across the country may contain high-fructose corn syrup.


Fuddruckers doesn't want you to know:
The fat content of its 1-pound burgers. We contacted our local Fuddruckers restaurant and were told that the nutritional information was available on the chain's Web site (it's not). The corporate office later responded that providing such information would be "very extensive [sic] and timely."

Dunkin' Donuts doesn't want you to know:
That each of its medium-size fruit-and-yogurt smoothies packs at least 60 grams of sugar—more than four times the sugar in a chocolate-frosted cake doughnut. The fruit purees used in the smoothies are mixed with liberal doses of sugar and/or high-fructose corn syrup.

Papa John's doesn't want you to know:
That unlike rival chains such as Domino's, it has made little effort to introduce healthier options. A Papa John's representative admitted, "At this time, we have no additional regular menu items that are targeted toward eating lighter."

Burger King doesn't want you to know:
That its French toast sticks (which deliver more than 4 grams of fat per stick) share a deep fryer with the pork sausage, pork fritters, Chicken Tenders, chicken fries, Big Fish patties, hash browns, onion rings, and Cheesy Tots—and that all of those items contain harmful trans fats. But there is hope: After the company was sued by the Center for Science in the Public Interest for moving too slowly to remove trans fats from its menu, Burger King promised to phase them out by the end of 2008.

Panera Bread doesn't want you to know:
That the synthetic food colorings in its pastries have been linked to irritability, restlessness, and sleep disturbance in children. And British researchers found that artificial food colorings and preservatives in the diets of 3-year-old's caused an increase in hyperactive behavior. (The same ingredients appear in fast-food items such as mayonnaise, M&M Blizzards, and McDonald's shakes.) To its credit, Chipotle uses no artificial colorings or flavorings.

Baskin Robbins doesn't want you to know:
That, unlike Jamba Juice's all-fruit smoothies, the top four ingredients in its Blue Raspberry Fruit Blast are Sierra Mist soda, water, sugar, and corn syrup.

Maggiano's Little Italy doesn't want you to know:
Just how many calories and carbs you're consuming in those massive pasta portions. (As the menu puts it, "Family-style service or individual entrees are available...Whichever you choose, you'll have plenty to share or take home.") In Italy, a standard pasta serving means 4 ounces of noodles with a few tablespoons of sauce. At Maggiano's, a large order of pasta translates into 2 pounds of noodles piled high on a hubcap-size dinner plate (15 1/2 inches in diameter). A Maggiano's PR rep responded to our request for nutritional information a week later: "Sorry for the delay. I had to wait for corporates approval. Unfortunately, they have declined to participate."

Chevy's Fresh Mex doesn't want you to know:
How its tortillas stack up nutritionally. The chain says it provides "nutritional information regarding calories, fat, protein & carbohydrates for some of our most popular items"—the chicken, steak, and shrimp fajitas, for example—on its Web site. But the numbers provided don't include an essential component: the tortilla.

T.G.I. Friday's doesn't want you to know:
How little nutritional info it provides. A Friday's PR rep told us that the chain makes the data available for only its "low-fat" dishes—those coming in under 500 calories and 10 grams of fat. There are just three such dishes on the entire Friday's menu.

Sit-down chains don't want you to know: 
That their food is actually considerably worse for you than the often-maligned fast-food fare. In fact, our menu analysis of 24 national chains revealed that the average entree at a sit-down restaurant contains 867 calories, compared with 522 calories in the average fast-food entree. And that's before appetizers, sides, or desserts—selections that can easily double your total calorie intake.

July 2008 Update: It's still diner beware out there. The good news is that a handful of other municipalities are considering legislation similar to New York City's. We won't be satisfied until there's complete transparency in the restaurant industry. That day will come, we're sure of it. Why? Because we won't stop snooping until it does.


So to purchase this book you may purchase it on Amazon. I only listed the 16 Secrets available to learn the rest of the secrets you must buy a copy for yourself. And truthfully after all the personal studies and researching I have done I found it best to just cook at home w/ONLY fresh grown veggies and fruit as well as ONLY fresh but Butcher meat (from a farm that I KNOW uses NO Chemicals or Steroids on their animals!) BUT, if you still enjoy to eat out I highly suggest you grab a copy of this book, you can follow my Amazon link below, thanks... and enjoy a new and healthier lifestyle.

 

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